Get to Know Which Kinds of Children Easily Become Victims of Bullying

Victims of bullying usually have low self-esteem, are socially excluded, have special needs, or have overprotective parents.

Updated May 7, 2023
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In order to better understand the victims of bullying, it is perhaps useful to first get into the mindset of bullies to understand what motivates them to become monsters!

Well, bullies are who they are because of what they see in their victims. They pick victims that are easy targets and almost always children that are easy to frighten.

Bullies also take time off to read the body language of their would-be victims, before they pounce. They choose kids they can outsmart and not those who can outsmart them.

Yes, they are always on the hunt for the week, sensitive, and children who have issues blending in with the others. They fear peers that are likely to challenge them.

Exactly who is at risk of bullying?

Research shows that children or groups of children most at risk of bullying are those with the following traits:

1. Children lacking self esteem

Children with low self-esteem and therefore lacking in self-confidence and assertiveness, feel powerless and insecure in the presence of bullies.

Because they do not think highly of themselves, they are often shy, quiet, and less involved in school or other shared activities. They more than often become victims of bullying.

According to VeryWell

people who bully others are looking for someone who will react to their hurtful words or actions. As a result, bullies target teens who are not confident or assertive.

Sometimes, children with these character traits are submissive and insecure and will become prime targets of forceful peers.

2. Children that are physically different

Kids who are physically different in body structure and those that feel inadequate because of looks and related reasons are also easy targets.

The sense of ‘inability’ in children with small/obese body weight and height, leaves them quite fragile. Most bullies are of bigger body mass, and/or surround themselves with similarly bigger boys to wreak havoc on smaller children.

Victims of abuse are often made to believe they are not attractive and charming. They are also less likely to engage in school activities and social interactions.

Studies also show the relationship between obesity and bullying.

Physical appearance, particularly overweight or obesity, has been reported to be a common reason for being bullied for both boys and girls.8996 This weight-based teasing is a problem for all youth regardless of racial/ethnic origin.97 Bullies often target individuals who are overweight and unattractive. 

3. Children with special health needs

Children with extreme health conditions are more likely to be bullied than their peers.

These include children with physical and intellectual disabilities, those with speech disorders, anxiety, and of course, the sickly, etc.

These and similar conditions increase the risk of stigmatization and other consequences.

Studies have shown,

children with chronic illnesses and disabilities (ie, learning disorders, chronic diseases) are more likely to be bully victims.7680 Children with cerebral palsy have been reported to be victims of social exclusion within the school context.81

4. Children from overprotective homes

Although protecting children is a good thing to do, going overboard, however, leaves them defenseless every time they are on their own.

Since they have been trained to rely on parents, big brothers, and teachers, in times of difficulty, encounters with bullies leave them very fragile.

Overprotection goes hand in hand with extremely strict parenting which all fail to prepare children for crude realities in life.

Rather than producing the ideal children that parents want, overprotection and strictness can increase vulnerability in children, which can lead to withdrawal, depression, and low self-esteem.

Active parenting should be considered instead, to prepare children for the real world out there.

5. Socially secluded children

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Kids who lack protective frameworks of peers, and/or groups, are easy targets because they lack someone to defend them in the face of bullying.

These children are usually introverts and others who feel socially unattractive and may isolate themselves from an active environment.

Unfortunately, this will not scare away the bullies who will be seeking for them all the time.

A supportive network of social friends and groups is usually the first line of defense when children experience bullying. More often than not, these networks are more important than only the best friend.

The helping hand for victims of bullying

None of the above factors may point to victims of bullying, especially if schools and institutions pre-cultivate a bullying-free environment, but you may just want to check them out, just to be sure.

In any case, the traits listed here should be minimized at all costs. This is because they don’t actually bring out the very best in children.

In addition, children need to be made aware of the loopholes that promote bullying, and their own role in ensuring that other children are not bullied. They should desist from secluding other children and instead stand up for each other.

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